A 35-year-old Nigerian man living in Italy calls out for assistance as his wife hits him and makes him do chores on an ongoing basis.
A man in trouble tweeted to the social media influencer @Wizarab10 about the problems in his marriage in an unnamed plea for assistance.
The man said that his wife funded his move from Nigeria to Italy, and that he then paid his wife’s Nigerian parents the bride price.
But once they became husband and wife in Italy, his life changed since he was constantly beaten and harassed.
Narrating how he met his wife, he said:
“Just like the guy who married a single mother of two in lekki. I met my wife in Malaysia. Then she was my gf, things were so difficult for me there, she was of great help to me until I had to return to Nigeria.
“She relocated to Italy after some time and there she got pregnant for two different men…said one of the men died and other refused marrying her. While I was in Nigeria, she helped me run my papers to Italy, n I came over. She handled everything herself. I felt so loved by her.”
Speaking on how the whole incident started he had this to say:
“She was all good and loving when I came over too until I sent my people to pay her bride price in Nigeria.
Since then, she has turned into a lion. I’m subjected to domestic violence. She beats me up a lot. The last time, I couldn’t see with my left eye for 2 weeks just because I asked a simple question concerning where she spent the night She has connections everywhere.
I can’t report to the police. I’m forced to wash her pants, I’m forced to sex her even when I’m not in the mood and I must wash her plate for a very long time until she cums. I’m tired of this whole life.
I love to do but gosh that’s not the only essence of my lyf. She doesn’t trust me one bit, always wants to go through my phone and never wants a lady, close to me. Especially young ladies.”
“The day I found out she is into olosho business here I was devastated. We have a girl and boy together making it 2 boys and 2 girl. I work and take care. I work and take care of all of them. But I am still a slave in my own house.
Please I need advice. How do I run away from this place with my kids. She helped me come over n I feel indebted to her. But I’m dying inside. I’m 35 years and ages 42. This is not the kind of family I dreamt of.
I’m writing this with tears in my eyes. I can’t speak up, My people will laugh at me Cos I was warned.”