“I came to his house for the first time and he wanted me to clean his house” – Nigerian lady narrates
A Nigerian woman who goes by the Twitter handle @ikpekachiee shared her traumatic experience on social media after agreeing to go to a man’s house for the first time.
She was allegedly confronted with a filthy kitchen and told to clean a collection of unwashed plates that had been left unattended for more than two weeks instead of being treated with respect and hospitality.
The lady, who expressed her anguish in a heartfelt post on social media, bemoaned the appalling state of the kitchen and the mistreatment she endured.
She emphasized her disbelief at the level of negligence and insensitivity exhibited by the man, calling attention to the living conditions that she claimed “no woman should have to endure.”
In her social media post, the lady shared photographs of the unkempt kitchen, which displayed a disarray of dirty plates, utensils, and food scraps that had accumulated over an extended period.
She asserted that the plates had not been used by her during her visit, and yet she was instructed to clean them, indicating an apparent disregard for her comfort and dignity.
The incident has sparked a wave of outrage on social media, with many users expressing their solidarity with the lady and condemning the man’s behavior.
See tweet and reactions below;
I’m coming to your house for the first time this year and you’re angry that I did not clean your kitchen that looks like where animals are living. I can’t even post the chats cause I’m so angry. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 https://t.co/UJHYGLVdQU pic.twitter.com/vvIQBSEA2S
— omo pastorr (@IkpeKachiee) June 28, 2023
@hugomah said; “Later he’d say😂 “I was testing you I did it to just test you”. Osheyyyyy testing the microphone🎤 1 2!!!😂😂
@ada_ideato wrote; “Omo you all should let her be! Why would a grown ass man keep his kitchen this way! I’m sure the reason she is ranting is cox he vented out on her for not cleaning it!!! Go get a house help brooo”
@prudent confidence1 wrote; “Even if i be dirty boy inviting woman for the first time, Omo i go over clean everywhere use hypo wash plate”
@funaya said; “But women dey chop shit o imagine visiting a man for the first time and he expects you to clean his house. As in housemaid abi na wetin. Nawa o the audacity”
@icewaterofficial said; “Bcos of say she be ur house girl abi lol some african men just think women are slaves”
@royal_natural_hair wrote; “Chapter 1 says, even if you clean the kitchen; he will still not marry you, please the next Chapter”
@ijobayanyan said; “If u want a girl to clean ur kitchen after cooking make sure she met it clean. No way she can leave it dirty if she meets it clean”