A Nigerian woman has adamantly declared her determination to become a single mother, rejecting the notion of marriage and the requirement to follow any man’s commands.
The woman’s conviction is on display as she outlines her goals for an independent and financially free life in the video, which has received a mixed reception from internet users.
The self-assured young woman addresses societal standards that frequently encourage women to marry and adhere to traditional gender roles while expressing her wish to be a single mother in the film.
The lady firmly declares that she cannot imagine herself following the instructions of any man and prefers to remain single, embracing her autonomy and financial success.
She wrote;
“How do I explain to my mum at my age I want to be a single mother. I just can’t obey any man. I gat the money.”
The video has sparked a wave of reactions, with many women expressing support for her empowered stance, applauding her courage to challenge social expectations.
However, not everyone agrees with her standpoint, as some netizens argue that marriage can be a fulfilling and rewarding experience, emphasizing the importance of mutual respect and partnership in relationships.
See post and reactions below;
@thearabicgirl_skincare0
@Sandypec said; “Me I want them both good man and money♀️but as a woman try get your own money too e get why…”
@vivianezike732 said; “Give her all the money a guy suppose give she no go remember say marriage dey exist.”
@Latioflagos said; “How do I explain to my mom that I don’t want to get married and I don’t want kids.”
@Onye said; “I thought I was d only one wanting to be a single mother I’m 19 but can imagine being a salve for a man all in d name of marriage.”
@Chinonye Nwalie Ndia said; “Please don’t let any one pressure you into marriage jare. I am happily married, and I enjoy obeying my husband but I know marriage is not for everyone.”
@Daisy said; “Haa me too, my sister. D tot of marriage spikes my BP. I wish time would stand still so I don’t cross over 2 d oda syd of 20s wen dey start d pressure.”
@salama bala said; “May God give you a friend and a partner that will make marriage fun and sweet for u.”
@Isioma said; “I’m on this table, like I just want to have money and not think of a man in my life,but if you tell your mama this one she go shout.”