“The way you treat your wife when you’re healthy determines how she’ll treat you when you’re sick” – Nurse advises
In giving advice to married men, a male nurse made the claim that a man’s treatment of his wife while healthy would determine how she would treat him while ill.
A male nurse who worked in hospital wards gave advice to men on how to treat their wives well so that they will treat them well in return when they become ill.
The person going by the handle @Anasarabdul070 claimed that a man’s wife is the only person who can genuinely accompany him throughout his ordeal in the hospital.
According to him, the man’s kids, cousins and other family members may come but they’d never be by his side like his wife.
He said that the effort the wife would make to nurse him back to health would ultimately depend on how well he treated his wife while he was still healthy.
The tweep urged men to be more intentional about their treatment of their wives as the only person who can truly stick with them are their women.
An excerpt from his post reads:
“Dear Men!!!
After almost 2 years of working as a nurse in a male ward, I can tell you 2 things I’ve observed.
1, As a married man, the only person who’s going to be by your bedside when you are sick is your wife. I repeat, your wife.
On rare occasions, your kids will be there. For a while though. Only your wife can leave whatever she’s doing to be with you.
Your siblings may come and go, your friends may visit, but she is the only one who will wholeheartedly stay with you throughout youyour ordeal.
2, The way you treated your wife when you were healthy always shows in the way she will treat you when you are sick.
I’ve seen this pattern play out daily. You see those wives who are being treated well doing everything they can to make their husbands get well.
They disturb the health care practitioners, they cry, they rake, they go above and beyond to make their husbands get better.
Well, the reverse is the case with the abused wife. Her laissez faire attitude will be topnotch. You will sleep and wake up in your poo. You’ll starve.
She’s just staying there for staying sake. Some will leave you in the hospital for like 2 or 3 days before returning from wherever they went to unwind.
You will report to your people, they’ll yell on the phone and still nothing will happen…”
See post below;
Dear Men!!!
After almost 2 years of working as a nurse in a male ward, I can tell you 2 things I've observed.
1, As a married man, the only person who's going to be by your bedside when you are sick is your wife. I repeat, your wife.
— Abdullah A Abdullah (@Ansarabdul070) July 13, 2023